Owner of a matchmaking company. Dating Coach. First Date Planner. Wardrobe Stylist. First-date planning. Coaching. Love connections. Singles. Matchmaking.

Hi! I’m Rachel— Your personal connector and coach.

Welcome to Gem Matchmaking — Where Casual Dating Ends, and Meaningful Connections Begin.

I started this matchmaking service because I truly believe everyone deserves a meaningful connection and a partner who enriches their life.

With years of experience in relationship coaching and a passion for helping people find love, I created my business to bring a personal and thoughtful approach to matchmaking. I understand that behind every profile is a unique story, hopes, and dreams — and it’s my mission to honor those by connecting hearts, not just profiles.

I’m dedicated to providing more than just introductions. I’m here to guide, support, and celebrate with you on your journey to finding lasting love.

Whether you’re new to dating or returning with renewed hope, I’m committed to making this process encouraging, respectful, and exciting.

I believe it’s about quality over quantity. Every match is carefully considered because I know that true love is worth the wait.

Thank you for trusting me with your story — I look forward to helping you write the next chapter.

About Me

Owner of a matchmaking company. Dating Coach. First Date Planner. Wardrobe Stylist. First-date planning. Coaching. Love connections. Singles. Matchmaking.

My journey into matchmaking started after twenty years as a professional Recruiter — or as many call it, a “Headhunter.” While I spent years connecting talented professionals with the right opportunities, what I was really doing was helping people find a sense of purpose. At its core, the roles of a Recruiter and a Matchmaker are quite similar: I introduce two individuals with a shared goal, facilitate the connection, and guide them as they build something meaningful. The only difference now? The end goal isn’t a job — it’s love.

Beyond my professional experience, my personal life has served as a rich classroom in the art of connection. I’ve walked the same path many of my clients are on today. I’ve swiped, messaged, and hoped. I’ve crafted clever bios, taken carefully curated profile pictures, and opened my heart to strangers who, in some cases, weren’t entirely honest about who they truly were. I’ve felt the butterflies of a promising first date, the letdown of unmet expectations, and the heartbreak of hope that never quite materialized.

There were times I dated to fill the silence, to feel something, or simply because I didn’t want to give up on the possibility of love. I know what it feels like to keep showing up with courage, even after disappointment. I know the exhaustion of emotionally investing in connections that ultimately go nowhere. And I know the quiet strength it takes to stay open-hearted through it all.

But then, love found me — not through an app, but through people who saw a connection waiting to happen. Mutual friends introduced me to the man who would become my life partner. At the time, we lived an hour and forty-five minutes apart, and our paths likely would never have crossed if someone hadn’t played matchmaker. That experience taught me something crucial: sometimes, love just needs a little help finding its way.

And that’s why I do this work. Not everyone sees potential connections the way I do — not everyone wears the “matchmaker hat.” But I do. I believe in intentional introductions, in meaningful conversations, and in the quiet magic that happens when two people meet and realize they’ve found something real.

As your matchmaker, I’m not just here to find you dates — I’m here to be your partner in the process. I’ll celebrate your wins, support you through setbacks, and hold space for your dreams, fears, and hopes. Whether you’re new to dating or have been searching for a while, you don’t have to navigate this journey alone.

Why Choose My Service?

  • Personalized Matchmaking: I don’t rely solely on algorithms. As an experienced matchmaker, I get to know your personality, values, attractions, and relationship goals to handpick matches tailored just for you.

  • Confidential and Secure: Your privacy is my priority. I maintain a private and secure database of singles.

  • Exclusive Member Community: Join a vetted network of like-minded singles seeking meaningful relationships. Everyone must pass a background check to ensure the safety of their dating experience.

  • Guidance & Support: From your first introduction to the first date and beyond, I offer coaching and support to help your relationship thrive. Imagine knowing how your first date went and whether you will hear from them again, or learning how to end toxic patterns.

  • Personalized Styling: Your next date deserves the best version of you, inside and out. I offer fully customized styling services to help you present yourself with confidence, authenticity, and undeniable presence through a wardrobe refresh and a complete makeover of your hair and makeup.

HOW IT WORKS

  1. Submit a request to become a member. This form gathers basic information to help me learn about you and understand your interest in my service. You also have the option to schedule a free phone consultation before submitting a membership request.

  2. You'll Get to Know My Service: From there, we’ll schedule a complimentary phone consultation to discuss your goals for my matchmaking service and answer any questions you may have. We will determine if this is the right fit.

  3. Pre-Qualifying Stage: Every member must sign a service agreement and pay a one-time start-up fee of $199, which includes processing a background check.

  4. Approval: I will review your background check results to ensure they meet the minimum criteria for membership.

  5. Discovery Phase: We meet face-to-face so I can learn more about you and identify your ideal match.

  6. Tailored Matches: Using my network and in-depth insights, I carefully select potential matches that align with your vision for a meaningful relationship.

  7. Meet & Connect: I facilitate safe, comfortable in-person introductions so you can connect genuinely.

  8. Ongoing Support: I am here to offer advice, feedback, and encouragement every step of the way.

How We Work Together Is So Important…

Your matchmaking journey is a true partnership, built on trust, communication, and shared commitment to finding your perfect match. Here’s how we collaborate to create meaningful connections.

Owner of a matchmaking company. Dating Coach. First Date Planner. Wardrobe Stylist. First-date planning. Coaching. Love connections. Singles. Matchmaking.

Match Selection & Introductions

Using my expertise and network, I carefully select potential matches and facilitate your introductions. I coordinate logistics so you can focus on connecting authentically.

Ongoing Communication

I check in regularly to gather your feedback, discuss your experiences, and adjust our approach as needed. Your insights help me improve future matches.

Support & Guidance

Beyond introductions, I provide coaching and guidance to help you feel confident, prepare for dates, and build strong relationships.

Getting to Know You

We start with a detailed conversation to better understand your personality, values, lifestyle, and relationship goals. This forms the foundation for everything we do together.

Choosing the right services

Based on our discussion, we will determine whether my dating coaching and other services are necessary for a successful journey.

I’m not entirely against using dating apps. But the success rate has changed.

According to Forbes, dating app usage and results have seen a steady decline since conception in 2014.

Dating App Usage

Many dating apps struggle because a significant number of users aren’t looking for a relationship.

Dating App Results

The success rate of finding love on a dating app is remarkably low.

Success Rate From Using Apps

Reason For Using Apps